Friday, February 17, 2012

Four and a HALF!



Love this cutie pie!!

He loves to pose!

I decided to write a post on Ayden's half-birthday, if anything, just so I can document all the wonderment that is Ayden Christopher at this age! I can't believe he's on the countdown to FIVE!

-Ayden has to be the most talkative child that ever walked this Earth. The moment he opens his eyes in the morning, he starts talking, telling stories, asking questions, etc. His talking gets him into trouble sometimes, because he is SO stubborn, he won't stop telling a story to do something he is being asked to do.
-He starts stories/conversations with, "Momma (or Daddy), can I tell you something?" And then off he goes!
-He loves to talk about when he grows up. He will say, "Someday, when I'm a grown-up a daddy, I'm going to..."
-He says he is going to marry a little girl in his class who is "so beautiful" and they are going to have 3 kids: Guyboo, Sally, and Michael. They are also going to have 3 parrots, and 2 cats named Snowball and Harry.
-As of now, he wants to either be a "builder man" who builds houses, stores, and restaurants, or he wants to work on a computer like daddy.
-He is so inquisitive and asks such detailed questions, like,  "what are the floors made from? is concrete sticky? where do we go to buy cars? how will I get to the car store? How do I buy a house when I grow up? How did I eat when I was in your belly? and SO many more, I could spend all day on this!
-He wants a baby sister very badly. He wants to name her Hannah or Sally. He is not open to the fact that Jesus might give us another baby boy someday. He says, well, I will just talk to Jesus and ask for a girl ("grill")
-He adores his baby brother and can't wait for Ethan to "get big like him" so they can play Candyland together. He wants to get bunk beds and share a room with Ethan. (something we are discussing down the road).
-His behavior this year at Mom's Day Out has been SO much better! He is very well-liked at school, when we arrive in the morning, all the kids shout "Ayden's here! Ayden's here!" and greet him at the door. He stays on "green" 99% of the time, with an occassional move to yellow, I guess just to test limits. We take his behavior at school very seriously and discuss it everyday after school, reinforcing why it was good or bad. So far, no "red" behavior this year!
-We adopted the "Green, yellow, red" system at home and have a chart posted on the fridge. It has worked SO well. Ayden is strong-willed, but is the kind of child who does very well with structure and consequences. We also have his chores and "Ayden's rules" posted on the fridge that we go over every morning, and it helps him so much. He knows the consequences of yellow and red, and he knows green for a week means reward (Jump Zone, Chuck E Cheese, Movie, etc). He loves his "chores" and is so proud of himself when he does them. (Makes his bed, goes potty, brushes teeth, and dresses himself before coming downstairs; puts his dishes in sink after eating; lets dogs in and out to potty; helps daddy feed and water dogs; puts away his folded clothes in his drawers; puts dirty in clothes in hamper)
-Ayden goes to bed in his own room every night and comes to our bed usually sometime between midnight and 2 am, which is fine with us. This in itself is a big step for kid who has co-slept with us since birth! He is such a cuddler!
-We have started attending church where the boys go to MDO. Ayden loves Sunday school and his teacher, Mr. Jack.
-He has become very interested in the sounds letters make (something they talk a lot about at school) and is always asking what things start with. He is very good at figuring it out on his own when you help him sound things out. He can't wait to learn to read!
-Because of where his birthday falls, we still have 18 months until he starts kindergarten. He loves to talk about "big school" and can't wait to go! Hopefully I  will be ready by then!!
-His favorite things right now are superheroes and dinosaurs, and any type of imaginative play involving these things. He loves to play outside and help daddy work outside.
-His favorite TV shows are Ben 10 (about a boy that turns into a superhero), Wild Kratts (an educational show about animals on PBS), America's Funniest Home Videos, Scooby Doo and Max and Ruby. Quite the variety!
-He does NOT like going shopping and protests it as much as possible-- bargains, begs, and pleads to not go. Just like a man! If he does go, he constantly asks, "okay, is it time to pay yet? How many more things do we have to get?" And Lord help us if we have to go to more than just one store!!
-He is very cautious, just like me. For example, we are planning to go to my friend Angie's house to ride horses sometime this Spring, and when I was showing him a picture of her horses, he said, "I want to ride the smaller one, he looks safe" lol! He is absolutely terrified of bees.
-He is still very much his momma's boy, and still lets me rock him sometimes. He'll say, "okaaay, mom, I'll let you rock me". He tells me he loves me "all the way to his heart" everyday. Before bed, we have to have 4 kisses: Butterfly kisses, Eskimo kisses (that he calls "Mio" kisses, fishy kisses, and then a "regular" kiss. Such a little lover boy!
-He is still a picky eater with a strong gag reflex. He can't eat anything for about the first hour he is awake because he gags too easily. I hope this is something he will eventually outgrow!! His favorite foods remain PB&J, cheese, yogurt, waffles, turkey bacon, cereal, nutrigrain bars, granola bars, macaroni and cheese, fish sticks, chicken, pepperoni pizza, spaghetti and meatballs, hot dogs and corndogs and meatloaf. He loves ketchup and is a big milk drinker, plain or chocolate, he loves it!
-He weighs 52 pounds, is 45 inches tall, wears a boys 6/7, size 13.5 shoe, and still rides in a 5 point harness carseat. He is getting taller but his weight has stayed pretty steady for awhile now, so I think he will be able to wear many of his clothes from last summer again this year. Unless he hits a huge growth spurt between now and then, which is possible I guess!

He is SUCH a joy, I can't even remember what life was like before this bundle of energy, personality, and love came into our lives! Happy Half-Birthday Ayden Christopher!!

Monday, February 13, 2012

Look what Ayden can do!

Write his own name!
Ayden shocked me today by writing his name! Why was I so surprised? Because we have NEVER practiced it! He has flat out refused to even try. He has never been big into coloring or drawing. I used to push the issue but finally decided he would do it when he was good and ready! Still, I figured I would have to work with him on it...but I guess he has been practicing it at school? I will have to ask his teachers. The way I found out was by looking at his Sunday school art project and noticed his name, obviously in a child's handwriting. I asked him about it, and he said, "yeah, I can write my name" like it was no big deal whatsoever. I got an index card (he wanted "little paper") and asked him to write it again, which he did! (using 2 cards, lol). I am so proud of this big milestone! Tonight he even signed Chris' valentines card, and wrote "daddy" on the envelope by looking at the word written out on another sheet of paper. Such a big boy!! Go Ayden!!

Thursday, February 9, 2012

30 things (or 25)

I stole this idea from a friend's blog, who just turned 30 too. Okay, maybe I didn't just turn 30...it's been 4 months. But anyway, I love this idea- 30 things to accomplish while I'm 30. Many of mine are the same as hers, and I added several of my own too. It's similiar to New years resolutions, but a bit more specific. I'll be interested to see if I can really do this...after all, I really only have 8 months left of being 30!!

1. Plant a little vegetable garden with Chris and Ayden.
2. Print my blog books up to date.
3. Organize all our photos. Whoa. That's going to be a big feat!!
4. Paint at least one room in our house, preferably the playroom, including a chalk board wall.
5. Go camping in our (newly inherited) camper.
6. Write a letter to myself to open when I'm 40.
7. Pay for a stranger's meal in the drive-thru lane.
8. Create survival and first aid kits. Yes, I am a nurse, and no, we don't have an official "First aid" kit!
9. Give up soda for a month. Since I drink an average of 3-4 Diet Dr. Peppers a day, that should be interesting.
10. Take the boys to the Tulsa or Kansas City Zoo.
11. Finish an entire book. Any book.
12.Play in the rain with the boys. (I LOVE this one, Jenn!!)
13. Take the boys to one of the outdoor movies our town has downtown on summer nights.
14. Go to Crystal Bridges museum.
15. Weigh less than 200 pounds for the first time (as an adult). I'm soooo close!!
16. Get a massage.
17. Take a girls' weekend with my BFF, and fly alone for my first time ever.
18. Visit my BFF and her family in Houston this summer.
19. Make the complete transition to eating and feeding our family only organic/grass fed beef and organic fruits and veggies, even though it's not cheap or convenient.
20. RIDE A HORSE. I never have, I'm not even kidding. My friend Angie is gonna help me with this one.
21.Organize our home office and filing cabinet.
22. Detail my car.
23. Replace the door knobs of the 18 interior doors in our house. (The builders of this house really liked doors.) Okay, maybe this one is for Chris, but I will help him decide which ones to buy :)
24. Pretty much replace all of the remaining "original 1973" fixtures that are in this house. There aren't too many that haven't been updated, but there are an ugly few :)
25. Become members of a church.

I can't think of 5 more, maybe I'm too tired. Maybe I'm too lazy. But since I got started late on this, I think 25 is good :)

Monday, February 6, 2012

Seventeen Months!!

Ethan Jeffrey at 17 Months Old:

-Blows kisses
-Scribbles with a crayon
-If he sees you with a diaper and wipes and you tell him it's time to change his diaper, he walks over to you and lays down on his own! no questions asked! lol!
-Lays down in the floor when having fits or if he is pouting about something
-New words: Cracker (cack-er), cookie (ca-ca), bite, Debbie (his MDO teacher, he loves her!), book
-loves, loves, loves playing outside and has a total fit if anyone dares to go out without him!
-INTO EVERYTHING!!!! I just cannot stress this enough!!
-goes to the bottom of the stairs and starts hollering "night night" between 6:30-7:00 every night!
-loves bathtime!! darts up the stairs and straight to the tub the minute you say bathtime!
-When he sees something he wants to eat and he has his binky, he takes it out and throws it, and starts hollering for it! I have become one of those mothers who open boxes of snacks at Walmart before paying because once Ethan sees it, he has a fit for it!! We were on the cookie/cracker aisle on Walmart the other day, and he saw a box of Nilla Wafers. He took out his binky, threw it, and started yelling "Ca-Ca! Ca-Ca!" So, yes, he got a Ca-Ca. Several in fact. And we finished shopping (mostly) in peace :-)
-For the same reason, Ayden can no longer have a snack in the car because Ethan flips out for a bite too, and there's no way I'm letting a rear-facing toddler in a reclining carseat eat in the car! Ayden isn't too happy about the new rule ;)
-Follows one step directions- bring me a book, cup, ball, etc.
-First thing in the morning he starts piling books in my lap for me to read to him, he loves books!
-Walks around with real or pretend phones to his ear saying "Bye"
-Such a cuddlebug! He will just randomly crawl up in our laps, lay his head on our shoulder and say "awwwww"
Such a sweet, lovable, onery boy that we love so very much!!!
playing after church


going for a walk!

why have one cracker when you can have 3?

getting into trouble with brother!

5 seconds after Momma said "No"


I could just gobble that little belly up!!


Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Isn't it ironic...


This is our 4th winter in NWA, and by far, the mildest! Our first winter we had several snowfalls, starting in November, and then a massive ice storm in January. The following winter we had at least 2 good, deep snows we could play in.
Winter 2010

 And who can forget last winter, with several snowfalls including one that was a record-breaking 24 inches--exactly one year ago this week!!

Winter 2011
 Last winter was the longest, coldest winter of my life!! So, this isn't so much a complaint, but an observation...today is the first day of February, and we have had no snow to speak of yet this winter! We had one little dusting but no real snow. What is ironic is that every winter since we have lived here, I have told myself it would be a waste of money to buy snow gear (shoes, snow suits, sleds, etc) because Arkansas just doesn't get enough snow to make it worth the expense. You might remember Ayden's Wal-mart bag snow boots of 2010 :)


 Then, we ended up getting a ton of snow, and couldn't get to the store to buy snow gear if we wanted to! SO...this year, I decided snow boots and a sled would make awesome Christmas gifts and surely would come in handy...based on the last 3 winters anyway! Well, apparently I was wrong!! So, maybe I can exchange the boots for bigger sizes for next year...in the mean time, we're going to enjoy our Spring-like winter!
Today- 2/1/12, it was 62 degrees outside!